What is the meaning of rizz? Rizz is a slang term used to describe someone who has the ability to charm a potential partner. The term is a shortened version of the word “charisma” and is often used humorously or ironically online, especially in memes about awkward flirting or exaggerated confidence.
A little background on rizz slang
The term rizz was coined by YouTuber and Twitch streamer Kai Cenat. The word went viral on social media in June 2022, especially among TikTok users.
Same meaning; different words
Parents may not be familiar with the term rizz, and here are some other ways kids may express the same meaning:
- Spitting game (Someone with rizz will use compliments and flattery)
- Slick with your words
- Pulling (as in attracting a romantic partner)
- Smooth talker
What Does “Rizzler” Mean?
If rizz describes someone’s charisma, then a rizzler is a person who’s especially good at using that charisma—someone who consistently “pulls” or charms others. Think of rizzler as a playful way kids identify the friend who’s smooth, confident, or naturally good at talking to a crush.
Online, the term is often used jokingly. Kids might call themselves a rizzler after sending a bold text, or tease a friend who suddenly gets shy around someone they like. It’s lighthearted slang, but understanding it helps parents stay in the loop when conversations turn to relationships or flirting.
Who is the Rizzler?
The Rizzler is also the nickname of Christian Joseph, a young viral creator known for his exaggerated “rizz face” and over-the-top confidence in short-form videos. Kids sometimes refer to him as “the Rizzler kid,” and many even Google “how old is the Rizzler” to learn more about him. As of 2025, Christian is around elementary-school age, and his popularity comes mostly from humor, reactions, and playful skits—not actual dating advice.
For parents, knowing both meanings helps conversations feel less confusing. When your child mentions someone at school being “a total rizzler,” they might be talking about a charismatic classmate—or they may simply be referencing the viral kid they’ve seen online.
Overheard on social media
In an interview with No Jumper, Cenat criticized TikTokers for abusing the word with variations of the term, such as rizzed, rizzing, and unspoken rizz (someone who is so good looking they don’t even need to talk to draw in a romantic partner). Here are some examples of how kids use the word:
- I’ve got mad rizz!
- Yeah I rizzed.
- Bro got the unspoken rizz.
- He’s talking to a girl, but dude has no rizz.
Have fun with it
Kids will get a kick out of it when parents try to speak their language. If you hear your child use the term, ask who in their class has the most rizz. You can even tell them stories about what charisma looked like in the olden days!
Author Jackie Baucom
Jackie is a Gabb staff writer. She is the mother of four children and is passionate about keeping kids safe, happy, loved, and thriving. She has a degree in Mass Communication from the University of Utah.
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